Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Husband of two, a Bigamist?

Below some must read articles

http://definitions.uslegal.com/b/bigamy/

http://www.vanwagnerwood.com/CM/Custom/Bigamy-Criminal-Attorney.asp

http://abcnews.go.com/US/alleged-facebook-bigamists-defense-marriage-legal/story?id=11306824

http://www.legalmatch.com/law-library/article/marriage-requirements-bigamy.html

*Been asked so many times about his topic.

My View?  Personally, If you are one, first let me congratulate you. How in the world did you ever convince her to marry you? How did you do it? I think you are too insane to be in this situation too much headache. You can run but you can't hide forever. You must be a master of lies and a very manipulative person. If you didn't love your previous wife or if you are not happy with her why didn't you just file for divorce? Scared? Embarrassed? Because of your children? I know it's very expensive to get a divorce but that's not an excuse.Your new marriage is void I have read about it then you must be thinking that you can just walk away unnoticed? Where did all your feelings go? Were you hurt when you were a child? Are you suffering from Bipolar? Are you a compulsive liar? You've got issues man! It must be very hard on your part having a double life, more expensive and you've got to work double time. Imagine if they find out? Be careful, not all days are yours buddy! Don't be a coward! They don't deserve to be part of it and suffer the consequences of your unlawful action. If you can decide which family to stick, then be firm, talk to your family, make sure you will take care of them what ever you decide on it is not the end of the world, there is still hope.
Now,if you are married to one, I'm sorry.  For the first and second wife, this man is crazy having to deceive both of you and hurting you like this. Would you even consider this man your husband if he is also someone else's? Fight bigamy, it is a crime! Report and it will be okay for your sake and your children's future. As they say, it's not only illegal, it's immoral.  Nonetheless, it is still your decision, if you like sharing and if you are too desperate, live a miserable life with all the questions unanswered and the doubts in your heart too heavy to carry.  You deserve a life my friend,  start over feel love and be loved.
(Just my view, not being judgemental)

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  2. My father was married to my mom and another women for 7 years. We always joked about his other family but never thought he would do that but he did. He is a pathological liar and sociopath. It as if the father I new when I was younger died and has been replaced by a stranger. Thanks for your post!

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  3. Went yo the police abiut it and they pulled the "statue of limitation" on me. Now what do I do to take my previous last name back?

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