Husband of two, a Bigamist?

Below some must read articles

http://definitions.uslegal.com/b/bigamy/

http://www.vanwagnerwood.com/CM/Custom/Bigamy-Criminal-Attorney.asp

http://abcnews.go.com/US/alleged-facebook-bigamists-defense-marriage-legal/story?id=11306824

http://www.legalmatch.com/law-library/article/marriage-requirements-bigamy.html

*Been asked so many times about his topic.

My View?  Personally, If you are one, first let me congratulate you. How in the world did you ever convince her to marry you? How did you do it? I think you are too insane to be in this situation too much headache. You can run but you can't hide forever. You must be a master of lies and a very manipulative person. If you didn't love your previous wife or if you are not happy with her why didn't you just file for divorce? Scared? Embarrassed? Because of your children? I know it's very expensive to get a divorce but that's not an excuse.Your new marriage is void I have read about it then you must be thinking that you can just walk away unnoticed? Where did all your feelings go? Were you hurt when you were a child? Are you suffering from Bipolar? Are you a compulsive liar? You've got issues man! It must be very hard on your part having a double life, more expensive and you've got to work double time. Imagine if they find out? Be careful, not all days are yours buddy! Don't be a coward! They don't deserve to be part of it and suffer the consequences of your unlawful action. If you can decide which family to stick, then be firm, talk to your family, make sure you will take care of them what ever you decide on it is not the end of the world, there is still hope.
Now,if you are married to one, I'm sorry.  For the first and second wife, this man is crazy having to deceive both of you and hurting you like this. Would you even consider this man your husband if he is also someone else's? Fight bigamy, it is a crime! Report and it will be okay for your sake and your children's future. As they say, it's not only illegal, it's immoral.  Nonetheless, it is still your decision, if you like sharing and if you are too desperate, live a miserable life with all the questions unanswered and the doubts in your heart too heavy to carry.  You deserve a life my friend,  start over feel love and be loved.
(Just my view, not being judgemental)

Midlife Crisis

I'm sure most men my age (almost 50) will agree that this is the time when we feel there's so much to do but so little time.  Events happening right infront of our eyes, we want to control it but we can't and it's just so frustrating.

I've noticed lately that I easily get irritated. 
I can sit all day staring at my computer. 
I have difficulty sleeping. 
I drag myself to work, uninterested.
No sex drive.
I lie a lot and make stuff up in my head,  makes me feel good when people around me thinks I'm genius.
I lack confidence and I don't feel good about myself.
I don't care about my family as much as I did. 
Knowing my children are growing up and will have their own lives, scares me.
I do not want to be alone.  But find difficult to trust people.